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That's not a question, but I'll forgive you. Bear in mind thatyou're just "online" for a small portion of your interaction with somebody -- after a couple of messages, you're usually out on a date, interacting in meat space.
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Emotionally unavailable partners are now able to reap the benefits of relationships without calling anyone their girlfriend or boyfriend; they can now place many partners into "friends with benefits" kind situations.For those who want something casual and carefree, this is exciting and empowering. For those people who are interested in finding a longer-term dedication, however, they may need to sort through many covert manipulators before finding someone who is compatible with their needs and desires.
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