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Tinder, a mobile dating app, has a reputation for facilitating hook-ups based primarily on appearance. This is likely because the app gives users very little information besides geographical proximity, title, age and -- of course -- photos. The fact that there is not much to go on when deciding whether or not to pursue another user is where evolutionary psychology comes in.
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That's not a question, but I'll forgive you. Bear in mind thatyou're only "online" to get a small part of your interaction with someone -- after a few messages, you're usually out on a date, interacting in meat space.
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Emotionally unavailable partners can now reap the benefits of relationships without calling anyone their boyfriend or girlfriend; they can now place many partners into "friends with benefits" kind situations.For individuals that are looking for something casual and carefree, this is empowering and exciting. For those people who are looking for a longer-term commitment, however, they might need to sort through many covert manipulators before finding someone who is compatible with their needs and desires.
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