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Honestly? I've completed that/said that before. Want some insight? It's a cop out. It's our way of beating rejection (that he didn't really reject me because I wasn't looking for a relationship) and not feeling like we're overly excited for a relationship. It's difficult to turn down an opportunity for a buddy vs. turning down a possible mate. It's also how we don't feel distressed.
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